Orange Parenting: Packing For A Trip To The Dome
This is the first in a series of posts on the Syracuse Orange parental experience from ShariCuse.
You've dressed your child in a mini-jersey, lil’ cheerleader dress, or the latest Borkowski t-shirt. Tickets in the Tops Family Section are in hand and your toddler knows how to say Otto’s name and cheer, "Go Orange." You think you’re prepared for your long-awaited first trip to the Carrier Dome. But did you remember to pack your purse, diaper bag or man-satchel?
Going to the Dome with a young child requires more planning for me than a full weekend road-trip did pre-parenthood. For my first weekly column about Orange Parenting, I have compiled a list of what you need to bring with you to maximize your game-watching time while introducing your child to the wonders of being an Orange fan.
Bag - Although Carrier Dome rules prohibit large bags and backpacks, I have found that entering through any gate with a child on one hip is a free pass to carrying pretty much anything. As a new parent with a 4-month-old, I had a full diaper bag with blankets, changes of clothes, bottles, and possibly a rocking horse inside, and was waved right through as I opened the top flap of the bag. A few years later, that little girl wore a kid-sized backpack and wasn't searched at all. For an average game, I carry a large purse, and if I make the gesture of showing the unzipped top, the contents seem to be irrelevant to security.
Treats - My two girls associate the Dome with Otto, sports, and lollipops. Again, bringing one's own food is not sanctioned, but a handful of suckers have never raised any eyebrows. Although I'm all on board in fighting childhood obesity, in order to buy a few minutes of freedom from, "Can we go play in the circle sinks?" nagging, I will happily feed candy to my children.
Sippy Cups - I tend to bring them empty so that my purse is lighter and then fill them at the water fountain. Actually, considering the credibility that parenthood seems to bring in the eyes of Dome security, one might just try using an extra as a flask. Just don't get the cups confused.
Toys - Oh, I planned on teaching my children to watch the game, too. I was going to have a 2-year-old who could chant "De-fense!" and a 4-year-old who could berate the officials. Alas, despite my best efforts, I'm lucky to keep them standing and clapping until the first field goal. So out come the Polly Pockets. And dinosaurs. And Legos. And Thomas trains (equal-opportunity parents, here). Fit as many toys as you can into your bag of choice.
Paper and Crayons - I take a stack of standard notebook paper, fold it in half, and it easily slides into my purse. Not only do the kids draw pictures during game time, they also do rubbings of the texture on the seats and cement. They have even made friends with nearby children by sharing paper and crayons. They often request that I participate, and my usual response is, "I came to watch a game, not draw pictures." But sometimes I literally draw up a play in my ongoing efforts to educate.
Money - You can forgo the number one foam hands, but concessions are a must. Be prepared that a request for food will be made each quarter of a game. Being a frugal family, we usually don't eat full meals, but we get a box of popcorn on one trip, a big pretzel on another, and something chocolate to last through the second half.
Ziplock bags - Remember those crayons? They roll. Prevent yourself from having to ask the person in front of you to bend down and collect a crayon. And the popcorn? There's only one box. Prevent arguments by doling out to each child their own portion. The sippy cup? Someone's bound to drink too much water and there will be a line at the bathroom and...
A Change of Clothes - It may be due to potty training or a stranger's spilled beer, but a size 3T pair of pants really doesn't take up that much room. Better safe than sorry. Then the soggy pants can go in the Ziplock bag.
Baby Wipes - Whether it's wiping a face in hopes that it will appear on the big screen or drying tears after the fans got too loud (it will happen), you can never have too many baby wipes. The accompanying diapers are probably second nature if your child is still that young, and be forewarned that diaper changes will somehow be most necessary when the team is in the red zone.
Camera - I'm sure you have a camera with you at all times these days, but I just have to remind you that your preparation efforts will be worth it. Your child will be cute at the Dome, and you will want to record it for posterity.
Is it because I have girls that I have to over-pack for a local event? Within the next few years, I will gradually wean them from these necessities. They'll have to learn to enjoy the games like I did when I was a kid. At least we have the "Go Orange" to fall back on.
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awesome!
very well said on all accounts. i took my son to his first basketball game in the Dome when the season started against Fordham. thankfully, he’s fully potty-trained and we ate at the Varsity beforehand so major concession meals weren’t necessary, but your points about overstuffing the diaper bag and having $$$ for food are spot on as I needed to do that when I introduced him to professional baseball (AA ball) a few years ago.
also, having a camera on hand is vital. the pics from the trip to the ballgame and to the Dome are priceless.
Fordham was the first game of the year for mine
started bringing him to games last year, but gotta love that kids club. 12 bucks for 1 football, 3 mens basketball games, and unlimited wbball and lax? score.
Makes me wish I lived in the 'Cuse
More than I already do.
"If I ain't gonna be part of the greatest, I gotta be the greatest myself." Busta Rhymes
by FeloniousPhunk on Jan 10, 2012 2:58 PM EST up reply actions
Very valuable
Also, you should find most of these tips helpful if you find yourself going to a game with a Georgetown fan.
Sippy Cups
Fascinate Georgetown fans.
“HOW DOES IT NOT SPILL?!?!”
March 12-13, 2009. End of discussion.
Change of clothes
For when the Hoyas soil themselves after falling down by 20+
"If I ain't gonna be part of the greatest, I gotta be the greatest myself." Busta Rhymes
by FeloniousPhunk on Jan 10, 2012 11:28 AM EST up reply actions
Heh
Just bought tickets for the GTown game next month. Last chance to get my kid in on the 12 and under bandwagon. Her birthday is literally the next day. If you see me at the game with my fingers in my ears going “lalalalalalala” it’s either because things are going poorly or I’m in denial that my kid is now a teenager. Sigh…
We will not rest until we see these capitalist octopuses annihilated.
-Che Marrone
This is why
I won’t bring my kids to a game until they’re at least 10. It’s a little different for me since I live about 3 hours away from the ‘Cuse. For one, between travel, pre/post game activities and the game itself, it’s a minimum 12 hour affair. A lot for a kid to handle. And two, I only get up to 1 football and 1 basketball game a year, so I’d like to be able to enjoy myself without the constant, “Hey, where’s my kid?” in the back of my mind.
My oldest will be 10 this summer, so I think I’ll try a couple dry runs with events at closer venues. We went to a hockey game in Albany a couple years back, which wasn’t a disaster. Assuming all goes well, I’m looking forward to introducing him to the Dome.
"If I ain't gonna be part of the greatest, I gotta be the greatest myself." Busta Rhymes
by FeloniousPhunk on Jan 10, 2012 11:26 AM EST reply actions
Not necessary to wait until kid is 10
Obviously all parents are different, so this is just what I was able to do, but my son is five and a half and he was fine. The only issue I had was that he didn’t know why “the players in orange” weren’t playing. He didn’t understand that the orange warm-ups came off and the team wore white on the court. Then he finally got it, pointed to the Fordham bench, and said, “Daddy, see the team in red? I hate them.” I was so proud! Also, it was just me and him at the game, while my wife stayed home with our two and a half year old daughter, so it made walking around and such much easier. My ride isn’t as long as yours (2 hrs vs. 3) but its still a lot for a kid, as you mentioned. I suppose it helps that he’s used to trips like that as we have family all over, but the general point I’m trying to make is that if its just you and your kid, you should be fine whenever you decide to go (mid-afternoon starts for either FB or BB work best I learned).
I have to agree on this one
I was at the Giants game Sunday and had really good seats in the coaches club. But there were little kids sitting behind us who looked miserable. They didnt appreciate what they were watching and now that they have been exposed to it at such a young age, probably never will. Same goes for a kid I know who was taken to Spain when he was 10. He had no appreciation for what he was doing and remembers it as “Spain sucked. I was so bored.” I dont think its an age thing though. Its an issue of interest level and appreciation.
May Doug Marrone bless you and keep you.
If my boys were Syracuse fans
then it might be different. But, on top of not really caring about Syracuse, they’re pre-pubescent step-kids. So, they’re in the beginning stages of, “you’re not my real dad, I hate you and everything you like.” Fun times. So, as much as a road trip to the Dome might be a good bonding experience, it would also likely end up being a forced one, which only turns out well in the movies.
"If I ain't gonna be part of the greatest, I gotta be the greatest myself." Busta Rhymes
by FeloniousPhunk on Jan 10, 2012 12:28 PM EST up reply actions
In My Experience With Kids At Games...
My kids hated sports but I did not raise them, I adopted one in her late teens and the other were by marriage. With that said, I have met Shari and her family and the kids genuinely enjoy the whole experience. They attended the Tully’s Tweetup we did last year, wearing Borkowski shirts of course, and seemed to be having a great time and loving their Otto shirts. Shari and Paulie are awesome people raising great kids and I highly value their opinion on these matters. Great job Shari. Keep up the great work.
"I'm in a Syracuse State Of Mind"
http://www.syracusestateofmind.wordpress.com/
by Orange Chuck on Jan 10, 2012 12:41 PM EST up reply actions
Thanks, Chuck.
I remember from my childhood spent at Manley and the Dome that I didn’t understand much of the sports-aspect until about 10-years-old. But I’m so greatful that my parents gave me the opportunity to attend games so that I could become the fan I am now. I put in the effort because I know that one day, the kids will look up and see a game going on.
Consider a lax game
There are some 2pm Sunday afternoon games on the home schedule. The crowds will be small (4-5K) since they’re not one of the big draws like Hopkins or UVA. Good chance to expose him/her to the Dome without a huge crowd on hand. You’d be out by 4 or 4:30 and home at a decent hour.
We will not rest until we see these capitalist octopuses annihilated.
-Che Marrone
Womens BBall games are good too.
you can an go anywhere in Dome because of so few ppl and Otto is readily available for the kids
I dont blame you
The fact that Im 10 minutes from the Dome is why my oldest gets to go so much.
I must say, it must be the dumb daddy in me, but I dont bring anything but the kid to the Dome, he is 3. He has done amazingly well at games so far, the large cavernous Dome and the site of the crowd and knowing dad is going to be get him nachos seems to be all he needs to placate him for 2 hours. He’s only made it through one whole football game so far, but basketball games are pretty easy.
Not Dumb, Just Male
If it were just Paul bringing the kids, the nachos would have to suffice, as well. I guess you’ve proven the hypothesis that women overpack.
Glad you admit to leaving football games early. We worked the kids up to the end of the 3rd quarter, but never made it through one all season. (The 8pm starts didn’t help.) You’re right that basketball is much easier.
nap is usually 1-3, so a 4pm football game works best. noon is tough, as are later games
it will be easier when he’s older. The wee one is the only reason Ive left a game early so far. Tough to see them acting out or fading fast cause they are at the end of their wee little patience rope.
Thankfully my girls are older now...
this was what we packed for the UConn football game this year:

Thats so weird... I like to bring my sippy cup to the dome too!!!

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by Rocket Ship Science on Jan 10, 2012 11:57 AM EST reply actions 2 recs
So what youre saying is
children are a good way to smuggle booze into The Dome?

May Doug Marrone bless you and keep you.
Don't tell
Glaude, we may never see him again if he finds this out.
Without Gerry McNamara we wouldn't have won 10 f-- games, not 10
by PoetryInMoten on Jan 10, 2012 1:41 PM EST up reply actions
Already checking out Internet sites for child trafficking opportunities.
Seems like a reasonable investment to ensure that I can smuggle in a partially stocked booze cabinet hidden in a carry-all.
I recommend a Chinese kid
I hear they have a surplus and they’ll scare the pants out of any Hoya in the building.
"If I ain't gonna be part of the greatest, I gotta be the greatest myself." Busta Rhymes
by FeloniousPhunk on Jan 10, 2012 3:13 PM EST up reply actions 1 recs
large plastic garbage bag
Is always a must. Stuff your jackets into it and put under your seat. Saves space and your stuff will stay dry (for the most part) from spilled Dome Foam.
Generally a good idea
but it depends on where you sit. Bringing kids and sitting in the tops family zone you don’t need to worry about the Dome Foam. Other beverages are still an issue but tops and straws make them somewhat less so.
We will not rest until we see these capitalist octopuses annihilated.
-Che Marrone
a better idea
I always buy an extra season ticket just for my stuff.
My 6 year old loved going to the dome
I took my 6 year old son to his first game at the Dome for the Seton Hall game and it did not disappoint. My proud father moment of the game is when my son started complaining that we needed to stop that Jordan Theodore guy. My dad and I, two proud SU gripers witnessed a new generation of complaining about SU basketball being born, during a blowout no less.
The biggest disappointment of the night was that they weren’t letting people out the normal doors so he didn’t get the experience of being blown out of the dome.
The other thing that I have to admit is that the kid loved the wave. I know that everyone here hates the wave, but we were participating during a time-out and he had never seen one before, so I didn’t see the harm in it.
The football spring game and August practices
are great free events to take the kids to as well.

by Pinker on Jan 10, 2012 2:57 PM EST reply actions 2 recs
This almost looks
like one of those “Get your picture taken with the prez” photos b/c of the glow around HCDM
Without Gerry McNamara we wouldn't have won 10 f-- games, not 10
by PoetryInMoten on Jan 10, 2012 10:20 PM EST up reply actions

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