First, perhaps our goal should be to send 44 kids to every dome game? The T-Shirts were an awesome add, but we have to respect the number. The tougher part is finding 44 deserving kids every game. Maybe we could work with SU to have a 44 Kids Club--a couple of rows somewhere dedicate to this cause. We'll provide the tickets, the Dome provides a soda, a Dome Dog, and the Dome equivalent to Doc "Moonlight" Graham on standby.
Second, setting aside the rivalry, and the obvious distaste for all things associated with Rutgers--nobody playing this game deserves to be paralyzed.
I am no psychologist, but I bet getting messages from fans of rival teams wouldn't hurt. Let's do the right thing.